Update on Homophobia and Racism
I just finished reading the thread titled, "?s about racism and homophobia ". Since the last post was from July of 2009, I was hoping to have an updated response to this question.
My husband and I are looking to move to NZ. One of several reasons is to we are looking to move is for a hopefully more benevolent attitude toward gays and gay rights (equal - not special rights).
Other posts have suggested that gays are not treated well in NZ.
1.) Has anyone experienced (first-handedly or vicariously) any homophobia, aside from off-color queer jokes?
2.) We are concerned about safety. Is there or is there not open homophobia, if so, do the larger towns/cities have an open-minded attitude or is it a rural (redneck/hillbilly) attitude?
3.) Domestic Partnership laws exist in NZ. Are there other discrimination laws in place encouraging equality?
I don't mean to portray us as thin skinned about queer jokes or unable to tolerate a little jab or disapproval. Comedy and lightheartedness are one thing, malicious belittling and bullying are another. On the other hand, I don't think we want to jump from the frying pan and into the fire. I hardly ever hear or read specifically homophobic rhetoric but the state is trying to amend the constitution to prohibit gay marriage and forbid domestic partnership benefits. Indianapolis, Indiana (US) is not a discrimination nightmare but once you get out of Indy, it is a place to be keenly aware and cautious.