Leaving everyone - how did you cope?
I'm marrying my Kiwi partner in just over two weeks. Beyond the general stress of wedding planning the realisation of how many lovely friends I've got and how much I'm going to miss them is starting to sink in and I'm feeling a bit blue about it all. I had my hen-do a couple of weeks ago and in the 'married life advice' my friends each gave me (in that embarrasing way hen-do's go) quite a lot said things like 'remember your friends are only a skpe away' and a number of were a bit teary too. I'm just thinking that if it's this bad now what's it going to be like when we get to September/October and are actually leaving.
I'm not regretting the decision or changing my mind, I am very definate that we want to go, I am very clear on the reasons why and have no doubts. But still, I'm going to miss them all so much. My main consolation is that a lot of my friends I've met since moving to London 5 years ago and now they are a really close bunch, so I'm sure I can make new friends with the friendly Kiwi's in Wellington - it won't be the same of course though.
So, I guess I'm asking how those of you who have made the move found leaving everyone, and how you coped?
By the way, it's not that I won't miss my family but they are more likely to come out and visit and I know I won't lose touch with them - after all they're family - but a lot of my friends are early 30's and starting to have families - not something which is conducive to regular trips to the other side of the world!
Thanks.
xx