Tia- you are right about Auckland. Our complexity is that we are set on private schools since I've had several conversations with American and UK families who moved to NZ and found that that the curriculum was a few years behind what they were doing in U.S/U.K. We experienced the same thing during a current expat assignment in Europe (our kids are just not challenged). We are looking for a different lifestyle than the hectic good ol' usa

so the thought of long commutes doesn't accomplish that either. We haven't given up though... Christchurch seems to be more our pace. Have you found a school you are happy with yet?