We've built our own home to be as green as possible, ie passive solar heating, solar hot water and good insulation and it certainly makes a difference!
However Markw55, we were quoted that price range as well when we started building 5 years ago! I think $2500 per sq m will be a bit more realistic. The $2000 for an "executive" finish generally doesn't include timber joinery as opposed to "weepy" aluminium, insulation in internal walls (not the norm here) solid core doors etc.
When we started designing our house there was very little info or understanding on eco measures, I did most of the research myself on the net. There seems to be a lot more info and general interest now though so it should all be easier.
I like the powered living concept, very good looking, it's nice to have a well known architect involved in green design. Ours just didn't get it, he kept saying we didn't need double glazing and for the price of timber joinery we could build a bigger house! We just didn't seem to be able to get our point across that we wanted quality rather than quantity
Over the years I've looked at kit set companies but haven't found one that does green in a serious way.
Migratory birds: I think your post sums up the most important points for a definition of green, perhaps recycling of old materials could be added?