I agree Tigerlily, a big attraction for us about Wellington is that there are trains to commute by! OH currently does a hour commute into work but it is by car to a park and ride and then two buses, I am sure once he tries the train into Wellington he will find the hour fly! Hoping so anyway!
I hadn't looked into Plimmerton or Whitby...a major criteria for us is walking distance to a good primary and secondary school...(??)