At our son's Catholic Primary school the fees are as broken down as follows and we pay these each
term:
School Development Donation $35
Provides finance to allow for our school development programme (building works etc)
Attendance Dues $72 (incl. $8 GST) increased to $82.50 (incl. 9.17 GST) in 2008
Go directly to the Auckland Catholic Education Diocesan Fund. Used to service loans for capital works at Catholic schools throught the county.
Special Character Donation $10
Charged by the Catholic Education Office to fund expenses for advisers in Religious Education
Parent Contribution Donation $114 increased to $122.50 in 2008
Provides funds additional to the Government Grants for the running of the school
The Special Character Levy, School Development and Parent Contributions are on a
voluntary basis (read 'we expect it to be paid and won't look kindly on you if you don't')
He joined the school about 3 wks before the end of Term 3 in 2007 and we weren't charged for it. We then paid the above figures from the start of Term 4 in 2007. I've now set up a direct debit as it was a shock to get hit with a bill for $250 at the beginning of each term on top of the stationery, new uniform, new shoes etc.
Not quite sure what to do in your situation, is there a kind soul in the office at the school you could talk to? Its sometimes easier to have these conversations face to face rather than trying to 'negotiate' via email.
Hope the above helps,
Anneliese