Originally Posted by
Max23
Hi there
Just wondered if any of you have had the misfortune to come across the Hague Convention as I have...
I am English and so is my husband. We emigrated to NZ when i was pregnant and so our child was born here. When i returned home for a holiday and decided not to return he issued legal proceedings against me using the Hague Convention. I had my passports taken by the police, bank accounts frozen and was eventually returned to NZ. I was even escorted to the plane. Now that I'm back in NZ I am fighting to be able to go home with our child who has dual nationality. The fact that he was born in NZ doesn't come into it, it is all about the place of habitual residence. Might take 6 months for the legal proceedings to be resolved - I have to apply for a Relocation Order, meanwhile I am stuck here with no family and no support.
A warning for any of you thinking about emigrating, understand the legal system here beforehand. The attitudes here are very different to back in the UK and the mother does not have the same rights. Rather backwards if you ask me. I only lived in NZ for 2 1/2 years before deciding it wasn't working, now I don't know if I'm going to be able to go home with my child.
New Zealand feels a long way from home right now....
So you took the child away from his father, over to the other side of the world, without having been awarded custody.
Can you not see that, perhaps, it is you in the wrong and not the legal system?