I have started this post over several times. I am very upset.
Bottom line--my son was assaulted at school today and I didn't even get a stinking phone call!
I am pretty well "over" this school anyway. I have had repeated discussions regarding academics. I have found one of the administration staff to be exceptionally rude and vindictive towards me (that is another story).
But I am just absolutely LIVID at the moment! Not challenging my son academically is one thing but not keeping him safe is another.
Before I go postal on the school, I would like the varied opinions of my fellow forumites.
How would you feel in this situation? What would you do next?
Here is the transcript of what my son said to me today after school:
DS: At morning tea time, we (S., L., K. and C.) were going to play a game with a ball. A. wanted to have the ball. He started fighting us.
He was punching and kicking us. We went into the playground to get away from him. He followed us. He threw a ball hard right into S.'s face. S. punched him in the face and threw him down.
I was looking around for A. and he came up behind me and pushed me into the wall and strangled me. I couldn't breathe. He wanted to know what K. said but I couldn't say anything and he kept strangling me. But K. didn't say anything anyway. H. came to help us. I climbed up the spiderweb with H. Ali came up behind the spiderweb and pushed us off. Then the bell rang and we went back to class. We told him that we didn't like what he was doing. He said he was going to tell on us but we didn't do anything to him.
Me: Where were the on-duty teachers?
DS: Teachers were on duty in the field (not in the playground where it happened--not teachers there) but didn't do anything. We told on him three times but he still kept doing it.
Me: Did you tell your teacher, Miss W.?
DS: We told Miss W after morning tea and she made S and A sit on the step for 3 minutes during lunch time. There was no referral.
Me: Did you tell the teacher that he put his hands around your neck and tried to strangle you?
DS: Yes. She said that "we don't hurt other kids but if you hurt other kids they might hurt you back" (to A.).
Me: What did she say to you?
DS: Nothing. "We don't fight at this school"
Me: Did she say "sorry you got hurt, C." or "do you need to go to the nurse" or "we should call your mom"?
DS: No. No. No.
I have gone as parent help on a field trip and have observed this belligerent child A. and his behavior. He was constantly misbehaving, was repeatedly redirected for the same behavior by both teachers and parent help. He was rude and belligerent with other children and adults. I am not the least bit surprised that he has assaulted these other kids.
Any comments?