I can't believe we've been here 3 years already, it feels like just a few weeks ago that we stepped off the plane at midnight, and waded into our new life. Come to think of it, it started with a fright for us all, as they held us after they'd seen our passports. Since the work permits were hand-written, they had to phone someone to verify they were real.
We were picked up at the airport by people OH had met on his recce, and stayed with them for a month. Every time we tried to pay for anything (rent, food, etc) it kept ending up back in my room, became a game of hide and seek the money! I'll never forget the kindness of relative strangers.
Our daughter had her 5th birthday party a few days after arriving and we managed to rustle up some friends. I still remember my desperate plea to the forum, asking you all to contribute some children for a party, and the lovely responses I had. It contributed to my overall good feeling about the country I was coming to.
Now it's 3 years later, my daughter is about to turn 8 and is heading to Year 4 - a senior in middle school! She's had a bit of a rough year, with a teacher that I came to believe is a bully and shouldn't be teaching such young children, if at all... My daughter is luckily still happy, positive and outgoing, and looking forward to next year.
We still haven't bought a house, but having finally managed to get our money out of SA, are ready to do so early next year. We hate our rental house that we moved into at the beginning of this year. In winter it's colder inside than out, and in summer it's hotter inside than out. At least it's consistent!
This year has been challenging, we've had some obstacles to overcome but we did it and we're here and we're still happy that we're here. For the first 2 years we felt a bit uneasy, a lack of confidence that affected all areas of our lives. We were tentative in our approach to most things. Now we're much more like we were in SA, comfortable in our surroundings, able to navigate daily life with confidence, have friends and things we like to do, etc.
I'm pretty happy in my career, I like what I do and I feel challenged without feeling out of my depth, which is a good place to be. The things that I loved about New Zealand at first still hold true. It's peaceful, it's organized, you can trust the police, things are generally clean, all that good stuff.
There are things I'm not wild about, like clothes being of generally bad quality, and just not that nice, things being more expensive than I would like due to the size of our market, the usual things that people complain about. Then there are more serious concerns, I worry that girls here seem to respect themselves less than I would like, and I believe that NZ women are among the more promiscuous when compared to other western countries. This worries me because I have a daughter, obviously, and while I have a huge influence on her at the moment, you can't rule out peer pressure as time goes on. I also find the binge drinking culture concerning among other things.
Having said that, we are the masters of our own destinies and with some good influences, good morals and some luck, we can avoid these pitfalls.
We have had PR for 18 months and should be able to get our IRRV in about 6 months. We're planning to apply for citizenship when we're eligible, even though it will mean losing SA citizenship. We've been on a road trip around the North Island, and are visiting Australia for the first time in January. We're planning a trip to the South Island in winter.
I have a coffee habit that I never had before, comes from working really close to a muffin break. I've started jogging. I'm happy. I love my family, they love me, we're not sick, we're not struggling. I'm grateful to be here.
Merry Christmas to all and a Happy New Year.