i am glad to see that not every one is looking at the right spelling and the likes.
i myself was born in poland, grew up in germany and my english was terrible 17 years ago.
as a foreigner trying to speak and write english it can be daunting, and just cause you live in britain dont always mean you are british.
even in germany where i went to school there was those "better"educated than others for whatever reasons life threw at you.
will keep reading, but am not sure if i want to post again
dave and maria, welcome to the forum, i found it full of fantastic information and good luck on your pending new zealand adventure if it comes together