Breakthrough! Signed a 12 month lease on a rental property within 30 minutes walk of my office. It's a "character" property so the kitchen and bathroom are pretty basic, but it's a stand-alone house with garden, garage, heat pump and situated in a quiet neighbourhood. We move in on Saturday and as it's unfurnished we'll literally be camping there until we get some furniture. At least sleeping on a yoga mat is great for the back.
The funny thing is that a couple of days ago we missed out on a rental that was higher rent, further from the shops and overall less suited to us. Yet I would have taken it in an instant had it been available.
There's an almost child-like sense of excitement at the prospect of having our own little place no matter how basic it might be. We'll quickly make it a home and settle in.
Cherry, glad my notes were of help to you. I think some of the agony we went through was self imposed by attempting to get a job and a rental in the first week after arrival. I think a more realistic schedule for property hunting would allow you to reject the "almost" suitable properties and also allow you to develop realistic expectations.
RR