I don't know how many people have been through this. It's something I've been talking about with my family. What should we do if one or more of us love New Zealand while one or more hates the place? Should we agree a plan for this before we go? What's a good template for a plan? If we make a plan are we planning to fail which would make it a bad idea. Would value advice from anyone whose made it to New Zealand, doesn't matter if you hate it or love it, any advice is v. welcome.