Hi everyone,
My husband (US Citizen) and I (NZ Citizen) are planning to move to NZ next year, and are starting to get our heads around the process for bringing my husband home. I've been living in Canada for 2 years now, of a 3 year work permit, and he has not lived in NZ.
Our situation would seem straightforward, but it has some key twists, and I'm really looking for some peace of mind - any anecdotes or similar experiences people have would be appreciated! I'll be very brief in outlining our situation, so as not to bore anyone to sleep - I can elaborate as we go if people have thoughts or insights.
Jun 2009 - We meet in Toronto whilst vacationing separately, me from NZ, him from US, sparks fly.
Jun to Feb 09/10 - Long distance relationship NZ-USA, contact maintained via skype, letters.
Feb 10 - He visits me in NZ for 2 weeks, meets the family, etc
Feb to May 10 - Long distance relationship NZ-USA
May 10 - I move to Toronto with work transfer on temporary work permit, with 2 week holiday in USA with him beforehand
May 10 to May 11 - Long distance relationship Canada-USA (6hrs drive), spending one to two weekends per month together plus longer vacation periods around the USA
May 11 - Married in USA
July 11 - Husband granted Canadian spouse temporary work permit as a spouse of a temporary foreign worker (me)
Aug 11 - Husband moves to Canada, we start living together, he is hired at my company (so now we live and work together)
That brings us to today - we're happily living together, and when my work permit expires in May 2013, the plan is to head home to NZ, settle down, start a family, live happily ever after. We are absolutely genuine in our relationship in every way.
The main sticking point is that we didn't live together, or even in the same country, until he received his Canadian work permit and was able to move up here to be with me. So I feel like that looks a little suspicious, even though it really isn't - it's just that he couldn't get into Canada any other way (not a skilled worker and not going to pay exorbitant international student fees to study here when he doesn't want to study anything in particular) so we bumped our marriage up a year or so and did it that way. It worked, as far as Canadian immigration was concerned, but I'm just worried that NZ immigration will see that we married before we even lived in the same country, and view it as suspicious.
I'm sorry, this rambled on longer than I intended it to - I'll stop now. If anyone would like clarification of details, I'll be happy to oblige.
But how does our situation look?