Originally Posted by
Manks
Is your partner planning on finding work too once you get here? That will be a big factor in affordability. We moved over with my job offer of a similar amount. We were in a similar boat to you - 30s, no kids, one dog. We lived centrally in a small apartment initially (we didn't have the pooch over here at that point) while my husband found a job and we figured out where we were going to live. I shopped at the fruit and veg market by Te Papa every weekend and got other staples from the New World across the road. We didn't have a car. We ate out or got take out a couple of times a week and usually went out with friends once or twice a week too.
We managed just fine at that point. We weren't saving much but we weren't having to worry about budgeting too tightly. I was still able to have my morning flat white! When hubby found a job we were then able to start saving. So we basically worked out we were living on my salary and saving his. And that is still the case.
Ultimately you can make it work if you want to. You will find ways, make compromises, and get on with it.
FYI - in terms of "working your way back up" the salary scale, I have done that - although my pay cut to come here wasn't as extreme - but I was earning more than I left in the UK after a year. So it is possible.