Hi Sylvia 0285
my hubby and I came out in Feb 2013 (from UK) the rollercoaster ride beforehand was extremely stressful because, THB I don't think I really wanted to jump. My OH had always wanted to emigrate, but not me. In the end, because of our age, we decided this was out last chance and I knew I would regret it if I just didn't give it a go. Yes, I did think that it would cost a fortune to get here (and it did) and if I wanted to go back to UK would cost even more (which it will) but I also didn't want to ever regret having a go. We decided we would jump and if it didn't work out we would go back to UK and treat it as a long holiday, yes, very expensive one, but hey filled with lots of experiences. We're on a LTBV and only part way through the process, we will be able to apply for our Permanent Residency next year, and we are hoping we will be accepted, but there is no guarantee, so again a bit of another rollercoaster emotionally. Having said all that, I am so glad I did it, it's certainly not an easy journey but this place is fabulous, gorgeous, the people are friendly and pleasant and respectful and it is such a refreshing change from how UK has become (in our eyes anyway). Yes we miss our family and friends, but to be honest not much else. It is a different way of life here, not the same choice in the supermarkets but that's not always a bad thing. We are from Lancashire but now live in the North Shore of Auckland and I would say prices of houses/food etc are probably comparable to London but the outdoor lifestyle is fantastic, beautiful beaches on the doorstep, fantastic landscape scenery at every corner. I haven't been to Christchurch so can't comment but listening to others I believe it is quite depressing, but that can be expected after what it's been through. Just wanted to give my view seeing as we are also from UK, I know what you're going through and hoped that I could perhaps give a little insight from my own experience.