What I mean is: my husband and I enjoy having a brew at a pub and we have a three-year-old that's well-behaved enough to take with us. (Also, we don't know a soul in NZ and don't have childcare, anyway.) Here in Norway, with what little "pub culture" exists, it's no problem to have her along. I'd totally forgotten that America is slightly, um, different in this aspect until we visited family there this May and we were told that children are not welcome. (I guess it was obvious that we're breeding quite the little lush? )
What's the attitude in NZ to this?
Vann