I'm considering returning to NZ in January, after living back in the UK for almost 4 years (I spent 5 years in NZ before that and have my PR). I returned because of family reasons and while I've enjoyed being back at times, particularly because of family and for the travelling opportunities from here, I am fed up of the weather in Manchester (cold, dark winters and greyness for much of the rest of the year) and because of that and other factors about the UK, I don't want to build my future in this country. There isn't much I will miss about the UK apart from my nephews, who are 2 and 6. I will miss them a lot, and also feel guilty depriving them of an Auntie! I am also close to my sister so will miss her too. I'm 39 and single, and another reason for wanting to make the move now is that if I am going to meet someone and have children I definitely want it to be in NZ and not here, because I think NZ is such a fantastic place for children to grow up.
Has anyone got any words of wisdom about leaving family behind, especially nieces and nephews? Is it worth the sacrifice for the sake of a better lifestyle in NZ? Last time I was in NZ one nephew wasn't born, and other was very young so I didn't have the same relationship I have with him now.
Thanks!