Hi. My husband and I got married in may 2014. We had a kid Oct 2014. We met in June 2013. Lived together from July 2013 until April 2015. Then I left to come to America my home country , with my son for a better life . He is in rome. I have new zealand citizenship by descent . My son is now with his father in Italy. I am in california, my hometown . I want all of us to go to new zealand asap. How do I begin this process. I also have little evidence such as document proof of us having lived together for a majority of the time . Only because it was umformal. help please. What's the first paper I fill out etc. Researching it I just get confused