It might also depend on where your work is based? Brown Owl is a perfectly fine middle class suburb, about 5 minutes drive north of Upper Hutt, which in itself is about 40 miniutes by train/car to Wellington City . (by car an hour or more at peak) has good schools and parks. The Hutt River is nearby with good walking and cycling tracks. Can be cold being at the head of the Hutt Valley. Upper Hutt shopping is not great, but would have everything you need. Large supermarket not far from Brown Owl. There is a primary school at Brown Owl, and Upper Hutt College is about 7 minutes by car/bus.