Hi there!
Just out of curiosity. I travel to Australia quite often to visit close family (parents, brothers etc).
Sometimes for couple of weeks, sometimes for a few days only. I got back yesterday from a 5 days trip. On a few occasions they pulled me aside to ask further questions regarding to my holiday. This time did too, just the usual. Who did I visit, where, what do I do in NZ, is it just myself here? It doesn't concern me I just don't get it. Why does it matter that I'm the only one here when my family is in Australia. I'm a resident, got a legitimate job. Even when I become citizen do I still have to go under this scrutiny?