I get your point and agree to that.
On a separate note and not relevant to this, wedding ceremony differs based on culture. In my case, rituals started around 9am till 5pm, invitees of around 400 people. There were two different reception after this, a total of 750 people attending in receptions. We married in a traditional Hindu ritual (this too differs based on community you are part of) and this is quite common. A hail lot of time, resource and people's involvement in it.
I guess the point which J&M is trying to make people can get married and have kids but not living a communal life. Which can be true in a few cases so INZ is well within rights to get this point ticked off to verify before approval.
Yes, I understand the difference in the ceremonial tradition that you are talking about, and take your point that yours was longer.
However, satty02 was right that I was saying that after ANY kind of wedding, the parties might not set up home together. An encounter leading eventually to the birth of a child doesn't necessarily mean the parents will ever see one another again. Criminals charging money to marry strangers to make them eligible for visas is the reason why NZ changed their regulations some years ago to make partnership, not marriage, the basis for this kind of family-stream visa.
Okay - evidently we all understand one another now. Ved Saumya, your wedding must have been a most impressive ceremony.
Are the one doing the second person check are the managers of the CO? Also, how long is the wait? Thanks
Second-person checks are done by COs of equal or greater experience to the one who worked the case. They are in a different department while they are doing 2pcs. It is their job "to ensure that an CO has not failed to check any part of the application and that their rationale for the recommended decision (approve or decline) is robust and in line with instructions" as EGoodhue, the LIA, put it. The actual check only takes 20 - 30 minutes - the time that passes is your file waiting its turn for attention, and that varies with how many happen to be before it when it gets sent through.