We had quite a few tough years, firstly a business failing was partly due to my poor judgement of the business partner. Mother nature also had a major effect...
I took a job and the company has been getting slowly worse and is on the brink of closing, not paying at times and a general below standard work environment.
Our perspective has slowly got positive once more, getting out and seeing the country, trying out new places and seeing which ones suit us best.
We narrowed it down to 3 places, then 1. We plan on moving there as soon as possible.
Then residency happened and the weight lifted, the imaginary trap door beneath us disappeared, uncertainty turned into excitement.
New jobs and location on the horizon and life changes for the better in an instant.
Be strong, be patient, be positive and NZ will be the heaven you imagined.