Make sure you read the articles in this website....
https://e2nz.org/
Be aware - life in every country has good and bad sides. If you hear from someone who is having a happy life, it sounds good, and/but there is no guarantee that if you follow in their footsteps, exactly the same things will happen to you. If you hear from someone who is having a bad time, you hear about the depressing and the unfair, and/but there is no guarantee that you will get the same experience. That other website mentioned seems to collect stories of bad things that happened - okay, sympathies due for any victims anywhere, but it's not a rounded picture.
All good, things are much better now. Imagine Theoden waking up from his spell, a great analogy after we've been in quite a funny limbo.