Ya, don't even think about it if you haven't lived together at all. The visa officer will change your application to a visitors visa and you will have to wait until the border is open.
The same situation with me as well, in a relationship for more than 6 years, marriage certificate, have bank statement supporting my wife, phone conversation logs and messages but didn't meet the living together requirement. Application placed in consideration for a patner-based visitor visa and that was when all this COVID thing started (2019).