RI2002, as you haven't so far had any recent feedback, it may reassure you to know that posts made by people years ago are just as valid to help you as anything people could tell you who had their interview last week. INZ's regulations for granting a visa based on partnership haven't changed for many years.
https://www.immigration.govt.nz/new-...ly/partnership For this reason, INZ CO's interviews with a couple who have an application in continue to cover exactly the same ground - they want to know that each person can show deep and solid knowledge of their partner (likes, dislikes, families, shared day-to-day routine, etc.), and talk about the development of the relationship in the same way, as all that would not be possible for two people faking things, lying to get the foreigner a visa.